if you know me, you'll know i'll be straight with you and tell you how much you suck, or how much i value you, or what have you. i probably see things in you that are worth mentioning, and either make you a good person or someone who everyone's going to hate. i'm really curious as to what's really indicative in a person as to what they perceive to be as bad, or good, favorable, displeasing, and so on. to one person, i could be full of qualities they hate and they could totally despise me. conversely, someone could see all these bad qualities i feel really are a thorn in my side, but it is interpreted as wonderful. is this all based off of one's own pre-developed values, morals, ethics, etc.?

i want to know.